By Asma Bint Shameem
There nothing much to do as far as a wedding is concerned in our Deen.
There’s no proof of “ubtan” or “mayyun”
That’s Hindu culture.
The mehndi ceremony the way we have in our customs is also not allowed.
There’s a lot of haraam that goes on in these ceremonies.
There’s music, dancing, mixing of men and women, women dressed inappropriately, going around without hijaab, and some even have alcohol Astaghfirullaah.
All these things are completely prohibited in our Deen.
However if just the girls get together and apply mehndi on their hands and sing on Daff only and among themselves without any men there, then that’s allowed.
Also there’s no need for the extravagant weddings that we usually have after borrowing money and spending thousands and thousands.
And of course there no need for “jahaaiz” or the money and stuff that the parents are forced to give their daughters for their wedding.
Rather it’s the GROOM that is supposed to bring the dowry and the gifts for his new bride.
All the groom needs is a nikaah then a waleemah that’s it.
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And Allaah knows best
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