Today's world is lot more involved in this fitnah. It's a natural tendency of human to get attract to opposite males. As we live in a world were their is lots of interactions or meeting with opposite gender.
As per shariah, one may speak to opposite gender if and only if it's very necessary or is important. We go to schools, college and universities where it's co education and also their are make lecturers to teach.
If we are born and bought up in an Islamic background and have sound knowledge of Islam, what is right and wrong. Which are the limitations in Islam. What is allowed and prohibited, what is Halaal ad Haraam, we will find it easy to cope up in a surrounding which we live today.
Most of the universities and colleges are co-education. This is the phase of hormones for girls and boys. And without these feeling, hormones and desires one may not be a human. Because a man in created with all this.
To fulfill this in Halaal way Nikah is destined. But, today alot of people who knows about Deen yet they fall in this glitch. If you love someone, please make it Halaal. You can feel the same love. You can express your emotions and feelings and fulfill everything in Halaal way.
Instead of opting for dating through Haraam ways, get married date each other in Halaal way and see the barakah Allah will put in your life.
The actual age for marriage starts after you all attain puberty. Even though you are not eligible to get married according to the government. But in the eyes of Shariah you have the right to marry. When you make things Halaal it will be the best for you.
You need not have your wife with you. You can just have Nikah and ruqsati can be done later once you get settled or complete your studies.
Nikah do not stop you from anything, absolutely nothing. It insteads increases khair, barakah, mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala as well as knowledge.
But Haraam relationship will destroy everything, it causes forgetfulness, sins, takes away barakah and khair and anger of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala will be sent upon you all.
To date is okay, to marry you guys are young. Look at what you guys are leading yourself to? To date Haraam way is perfectly okay, it's lovely, it's cool and what not. To marry and spend the same moments is orthodox, it's 90's days, it's old school thoughts.
No matter which year comes the shariah and the teachings of Islam will change. No matter how much the world westernises or modernize. Islam will remain same.
Kindly keep this in mind. Quite Haraam relationship, say no to Haraam. It destroys your Imaan, Say yes to Nikah and gain the Love of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala. To marry you don't need money, bank balance, house and degree. You just need to know the rulings of Islam and follow what is Halaal. If you can strive to be away fron Haraam in this world of fitnah then well and good. You can marry when you get settled. But if you cannot then get married as soon as possible. You never know if you get chance to repent or change yourself.
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala says:
“Do not come (even) near to adultery, for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road to other evils.” (Surah Israa, Ayah 32)
May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala grant us all understanding and Halaal love in our lives who will be righteous for us.
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