Assalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh

Tuesday, August 10, 2021

531. Emotions

Things can be resolved with open communication without ‘emotions’ coming in the way. 

Talk to him in a kind manner, explaining your situation 

You can also have mediators from both sides of your families to clarify any misunderstandings that may have developed 

Also the masjid Imaam or shaikh can intervene. 

If not, and she cannot put up with it any more and things are out of control, she is allowed to separate from him although I would *not recommend that*. 

If there’s any issue between the wife, and her in-laws, it should be resolved with forgiveness, love, kindness and understanding instead of keeping grudges and ill feelings. 

The KEY to a good relationship is to work things out amicably, with love, compassion and wisdom. 
And keep the best interest of the family at heart. 

And Allaah knows best

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