313. Hijaab

ByAsma Bint Shameem

Just because some of the sisters have their head covered, they think that the requirement of Hijaab is fulfilled. 

They don’t realize that wearing a Hijaab requires much more than just covering your head.

Actually, if you think about it, Hijaab is the way you talk…..the way you walk….the very way you carry yourself. 

In fact, Hijaab is an attitude in itself. 

Its a whole way of life.

Allaah says:

“And say to the believing women to lower their gazes, and to guard their private parts, and not to display their beauty (zeenah) except what is apparent of it, and to extend their headcoverings (khimars) to cover their bosoms (jaybs), and not to display their beauty except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband's fathers, or their sons, or their husband's sons, or their brothers, or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their womenfolk, or what their right hands rule (slaves), or the followers from the men who do not feel sexual desire, or the small children to whom the nakedness of women is not apparent, and not to strike their feet (on the ground) so as to make known what they hide of their adornments. And turn in repentance to Allah together, O you believers, in order that you are successful.” (Surat-un-Nur: 31).

Here are some of the more common issues in light of this verse about the Hijaab.

1. Well, my head is covered. Is that not enough?

If you look carefully at the above ayah, it clearly states that the head covers (khumur) should be drawn over the neck slits (juyoob). 

Yet, some sisters just cover their head with something, and think they are fulfilling the rights of Hijaab, although part of their hair or body is showing, or their whole neck and chest area are exposed. 

Dear sister,

That’s not the proper way to cover yourself.

Actually, that was the way of the women of Jahilliyah 

(pre-Islaamic ignorance).

Al-Qurtubi said: 

"Women in those days used to cover their heads with the khimaar, throwing its ends upon their backs. This left the neck and the upper part of the chest bare, along with the ears. Then Allah commanded them to cover those parts with the khimaar."

So secure the scarf well around your face, covering your neck/chest area, and keep those half sleeves and capri pants for the times you’re with your Mahrams

2. Sorry.…No tight jeans and short shirts allowed. 

You can’t wear tight jeans and a short shirt with a piece of cloth on your head and think this is Hijaab. 

Nor can you wear anything else that is tight, describing the shape of the body in any way, even if it is long. 

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:

"In later (generations) of my ummah there will be women who will be dressed but naked. 

On top of their heads (what looks) like camel humps. 

They will not enter into paradise or (even) get a smell of it." (Muslim)

3. If it is see-through, its NOT Hijaab

You CANNOT use chiffon or other see through material to cover your hair and body. 

Everything should be covered with an opaque material and the color of the skin underneath should not be visible.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) once received a garment as a gift. 

He gave it to Osamah b. Zayd, who in turn gave it to his wife. 

When asked by the Prophet why he did not wear it, Osamah indicated that he gave it to his wife. 

The Prophet then said to Osamah "ask her to use a "gholalah" under it (the garment) for I fear that it (the garment) may describe the size of her bones." 

(Ahmad, Abi-Dawood- Hasan)

(The word gholalah in Arabic means a ‘gown’ worn under the dress to prevent it from describing the shape of the body).

4. The clothes themselves shouldn’t attract attention

The dress should not be such that it attracts men's attention to the woman. 

Yet, Subhaan Allaah, some Hijaabi sisters are dressed in such a way that they attract more attention to themselves than they would if they didn’t wear Hijaab!

Dressing in such a way beats the very purpose of Hijaab.

Allaah tells us: 

“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance…” [al-Ahzaab:32]

5. What about make-up and perfume?

Wearing make up is also part of the zeenah that Allaah orders us NOT to display. 

So if your head and body are appropriately covered yet you are wearing bright lipstick, bold lashes or heavy makeup, etc that’s not Hijaab. 

And please keep those nice fragrances for the home, between you and your husband. 

That’s part of Hijaab too, even if you are going to the Masjid. 

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: 

“Any woman who puts on perfume and passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.” (al-Nasaa’i, Tirmidhi: hasan by Albaani)

6. Tinkling Jewelry and Jingling bracelets

‘Loud’ and tinkling anything, be it jewelry, bracelets, clip-clopping shoes, little bells on clothes, you name it, if it jingles or makes noise, it is against the principles of Hijaab, because it attracts attention to the one wearing it. 

That is what is meant when Allaah orders us in the above verse…

“not to strike their feet (on the ground) so as to make known what they hide of their adornments.”

7. No laughing, joking, or hanging out with non-Mahrams 

Some sisters assume that since they are properly covered, its okay for them to sit around and talk, laugh, joke, etc. with the men, but that’s not right, even if he is ‘the Shaikh’ that you’re talking to. 

He’s a man too. 

Allaah says:

". . . then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease should be moved with desire, but speak in an honorable manner." [al-Ahzaab:32]

So talk to them when there is a specific need, and in a manner that is not necessarily rude, but it is polite but firm.

8. Staring at the brothers or ‘checking them out’ is NOT Hijaab

Allaah orders us to “lower your gaze” in the above verse. 

Why? 

Because a single ‘look’ can say more than a thousand words. 

So, even if you are properly covered, keep those eyes down, conduct yourself with ‘Hayaa’, and avoid ‘fitnah’.

9. ‘Chatting’, texting on the internet/phone/social media is not part of Hijaab, either.

There is no such thing as “we’re just friends” when it comes to nonmahrams. 

Talking to non-Mahrams is wrong even if it is through the internet or telephone. 

There are too many stories of illegal relationships, fornications, broken homes, extra-marital affairs and runaway brides to even mention. 

That is why in Islaam, anything that leads to haraam is also haraam. 

Allaah says: 

“Do not (even) come close to fornication, for it is an indecency, and its way is evil.” (Surah Israa:32)

10. Be careful, even in the way you walk

Remember, you shouldn’t be walking with an enticing gait. 

Walk with modesty and hayaa and you will be respected. 

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: 

“There are two types of the people of Hell that I have not seen yet….women who are clothed yet naked, walking with an enticing gait…..” (Muslim).

11. Don’t shake hands with non-Mahrams

That’s also part of Hijaab

It is not permissible to shake hands with a non-Mahram.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: 

“For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than to touch a woman who is not permissible for him.” 

(at-Tabaraani saheeh by al-Albaani). 

And no, it is not rude to refuse to shake hands with non-Muslims. 

Simply politely explain that its part of your religion and they are very understanding.

12. Stay away from the men’s areas

I see many sisters entering the Masjid from the men’s entrance, or standing idle in the hallways or in the way where there is a chance of unnecessary mixing with the brothers. 

What for?

Don’t we have a separate entrance for ourselves? 

That’s the reason Allaah ordained the Hijaab in the first place, right?

To avoid fitnah, by reducing temptation and separating the genders.

“The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said to the women on his way out of the masjid when he saw men and women mixing together on their way home: 

‘Give way (i.e., walk to the sides) as it is not appropriate for you to walk in the middle the road.’ Thereafter, women would walk so close to the wall that their dresses would get caught on it.” (Abu Dawood- Hasan by al-Albaani )

13. Hijaab is also to conceal your sister

Although some sisters wear the Hijaab themselves, they forget that they cannot talk about another sister and her beauty in front of their own husbands, brothers, etc. 

Remember, part of your Hijaab is to cover your sisters ‘awrah’ as well.

The Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: 

“No woman should mix with a woman and describe her to her husband so that it is as if he can see her.”  (Muslim)

Conditions of Hijaab 

In order for our Hijaab to count, we MUST cover hair COMPLETELY.

Just loosely placing a scarf on your head, with hair showing from the sides, is NOT hijaab.

We MUST cover our necks and chest.

Our sleeves should be LONG, ALL the way to the wrist; 

our scarves and dupattas can NOT be see-through;

Our clothes can NOT be tight.

the shape of our thighs can NOT be seen because the of the long slits of our shirts.

Shaikh al-Albaani outlines the conditions of Hijaab. 

He said:

1. It should cover all the head and body, apart from whatever has been exempted (meaning face and hands).

2. It should not be an adornment in and of itself. 

3. The material should be thick and not transparent or "see-through"

4. It should be loose, not tight so that it describes any part of the body

5. It should not be perfumed with fragrance. 

6. It should not resemble the clothing of men. 

7. It should not resemble the dress of non-Muslim women.

8. It should not be a garment of fame and vanity.

May Allah guide us and bless us with the TRUE understanding of His Commands to observe hijaab.

 Ameen.